What Freedom of Speech Doesn’t Give You The Right To Do

10207_346359955467304_1634414842_nFreedom of speech is the most demanded of rights, especially in America. I’m not saying that is a bad thing. I’m glad I have this right, otherwise I wouldn’t be able to blog about it.

But there are certain things it does not give us the right to do. First and foremost, it doesn’t give us the right to think we are right. Just because I have the right to voice my opinion, doesn’t mean my opinion is the only one that is ‘right.’ It is simply that, an opinion. And just because it is my opinion, doesn’t mean you have to have the same one or it makes you my enemy.

It does not give me the right to disrespect your opinion, or your choice to believe differently. It doesn’t give me the right to ostracize you, belittle you, hound you, kill you, close you out, make fun of you, or in any other way treat you poorly. It does not give me the right to make others take sides, or claim exclusivity to a group that you are not part of.

I don’t have to embrace your opinion, but we should be able to agree to disagree in a gentlemanly fashion. I should live my life in such a way as to prove my beliefs, but not demand you to live as I do.

For instance, let’s say I believe in a religion and what it stands for. I should live my life according to those beliefs. Hopefully I’ve chosen one that shows respect for my fellow man, and should live it well enough that it should attract others to want to believe the same thing. The fruits of that lifestyle should only better this world, not destroy it.

Government should be separate and about the laws of the land. These should be based on fairness and equality for everyone, not a privileged few. Of course, world peace would be a good thing also, but let’s get real, our opinions get in the way.

So it is just my humble opinion (take it or leave it) that speech in any form, whether spoken or written, should not bully people. Bullying is not a freedom of speech issue, but a social wrong. I’m no better than anyone else, nor should I force my views on anyone else. I am all for sharing opinions and ideas because many times I find another’s view has more clarity than mine but I need to do it in a respectful manner, not bashing, demeaning or being downright vulgar. 

So let’s quit abusing our right to Freedom of Speech and considering listening to each other. We might find we are all on the same page, just on different lines.

 

13 thoughts on “What Freedom of Speech Doesn’t Give You The Right To Do

  1. There is “free speech” or there is not. The term bullying is subjective.

  2. This is so very well said and so very true. I think the simplicity of this message gets lost a lot of the time. And that is sad. Thank you for this great post. 🙂

  3. Nicely stated Robynn, Happy Holidays!!!

  4. Robynn!

    I agree with everything you have said, a very common sense approach. But I also know that evil and bad intent is something that we will always have to deal with. I can only guess, that is the nature of things. Wishing you the best!

    Roger (USMCGunny @ BookRix)

  5. Amen, Robynn! It could not have been said better. For those who believe the Bible’s script, Satan’s way was through force. Christ’s way was through meekness, love, gentle persuasion. Mankind were always given a choice.
    With that said, the same goes with many who insist on their “rights”. We only have “rights” as far as it does not infringe on and take away the “rights” of others. Some fail to understand this principle.

    • Though I’m late in getting back to you, and I apologize, I appreciate your reply and understanding! It is nice to meet someone with the same opinion as well. Thank you for stopping in.

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